Kourtney Kardashian has once again sparked widespread discussion, this time by revealing a personal detail about her sexuality that left fans intrigued, confused, and even divided.
The Kardashians star, known for constantly making headlines—whether it’s through bold fashion statements, candid social media posts, or even legally changing her name—has now opened up about identifying as “autosexual.” This revelation, made in a blog post on her lifestyle platform Poosh, quickly gained traction online, with many followers expressing their surprise and curiosity.
Kourtney’s blog post attempted to explain the term, which is unfamiliar to many. In her own words, she stated, “Are you autosexual? The short answer is yes, most likely. In fact, we all are, at least a little.” However, rather than providing clarity, her statement seemed to fuel more confusion among her audience.
As soon as the news circulated, social media platforms were flooded with reactions. Some people were intrigued, others were baffled, and a portion of fans simply dismissed the term altogether. One puzzled Facebook user commented, “What on earth does that even mean?” Another added, “This is completely new to me… honestly, it sounds pretty self-absorbed.” Meanwhile, others took a humorous approach, with one person joking, “So… she’s attracted to cars?”
In the blog post, Kourtney elaborated on what it means to be autosexual, quoting Casey Tanner, a therapist and founder of QueerSexTherapy. Tanner defines autosexuality as “a trait wherein one is turned on by engaging in their own eroticism.” The concept, according to Kourtney’s post, extends beyond physical attraction and can be linked to confidence, self-perception, and personal sensuality.
The article further explains: “A great example of this is how women, in general, tend to feel more desirable when they perceive themselves as attractive. While this may not be true for everyone, the idea that feeling confident in one’s own body can enhance arousal is a fundamental part of autosexuality. However, this isn’t a phenomenon exclusive to women—it applies to all genders.”
It goes on to describe how autosexuality can manifest in various ways beyond physical intimacy. While self-pleasure is the most obvious example, the concept also includes experiencing an attraction or deep admiration for oneself. Kourtney’s article describes actions such as admiring oneself in the mirror, indulging in self-care routines, or even dancing alone as ways in which autosexuality can naturally occur.
The blog post states: “It could be something as simple as enjoying the sensation of washing yourself in the bath with love and appreciation for your body. Or it could mean putting on your favorite outfit and feeling empowered by how amazing you look. If you’ve ever felt turned on by your own confidence and sense of self-worth, then that, in essence, is autosexuality. It’s completely normal and more common than you might think.”
The discussion around this topic extended beyond Kourtney’s blog, with the term “autosexual” making waves on various online platforms. According to Dictionary.com, autosexuality is defined as “a sexual attraction to oneself, often accompanied by a preference for self-pleasure over partnered intimacy.” Additionally, the term “autoromantic” describes the experience of developing romantic feelings towards oneself.
The concept has been further explored by dating expert Alex Bert, a relationship coach with over 14 years of experience, who spoke exclusively to IGV about the emerging recognition of autosexuality.
“As a relationship coach, I’ve seen an increasing number of people identifying with autosexuality as they explore different aspects of their attraction and self-love,” Bert explained. “Autosexuality involves a primary attraction towards oneself rather than to external partners. However, it doesn’t necessarily mean someone isn’t interested in romantic or physical relationships with others.”
Bert emphasized that autosexuality, like many other aspects of human attraction, exists on a broad spectrum. He clarified that individuals can identify with autosexuality while still engaging in and enjoying traditional relationships. “It’s not an all-or-nothing situation,” he noted. “Many people who relate to autosexuality also have fulfilling romantic and sexual partnerships. If these traits resonate with someone, embracing this aspect of their identity can be incredibly empowering.”
While the concept might seem surprising to some, there were also fans who claimed they weren’t at all shocked by Kourtney’s announcement. One user wrote, “Honestly, is this even surprising? The Kardashians are so in love with themselves, I’m shocked they haven’t all come out as autosexual already!”
Regardless of the reaction, Kourtney Kardashian’s decision to publicly discuss autosexuality has brought attention to a topic that is still relatively unfamiliar to many. Whether people view it as an interesting self-discovery or simply another celebrity buzzword, one thing is certain—Kourtney knows how to get people talking.