Tulisa Contostavlos, the 36-year-old British singer and television personality, has publicly identified as demisexual during her appearance on the reality TV show “I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here!”
Demisexuality is a sexual orientation where an individual experiences sexual attraction only after forming a deep emotional connection with someone.
Tulisa, known for her role in the hip-hop group N-Dubz and as a former judge on “The X Factor,” shared her personal experiences with her fellow campmates. She revealed that she has been celibate for over three years, emphasizing the importance of emotional bonds in her relationships. She stated, “I need to have a really close emotional bond with someone… I need actual depth. I’m a slow, slow burner.”
Her candid revelation has sparked discussions about demisexuality, shedding light on a sexual orientation that is often misunderstood or overlooked. Fans and viewers have expressed their support for Tulisa’s openness, with many taking to social media to share their thoughts.
One fan wrote, “Like I couldn’t adore this queen more, Tulisa saying she thinks she might be demisexual is EVERYTHING!” Another added, “Running to X to share my excitement over Tulisa sharing she’s demisexual and on national TV!”
Tulisa’s revelation contributes to a broader conversation about the spectrum of human sexuality, highlighting the diverse ways individuals experience attraction and form relationships.